By the novelist Professor Dr. Abeer Al-maadawi

The ideal family file is still under study, planning and attention ..Because I am completing the stages of work in a year plan ٢٠٢٣ .. And here I stopped in front of divorce, marriage and love stories .. Is it better to marry with love or is it better to marry salons

She often wrote and composed novels and stories .. No time, despite my great respect for love as a natural remedy for life's issues, but not once did I trust him ..The social problems raised in Egyptian and Arab society recently prompted me to write to you just my opinion as a philosophical researcher and novelist..Don't trust in love, why?' , Because it is not love, but a whim ..The clue is in the failure after the first night, the clue is the ship's drift after the attachment and the love..The proof is social networking sites..

Instead of Love, pay attention to what is more important than (( Mercy)).. For women and men, if you feel compassion and respect in a relationship, stick to each other ..

From here, refer to the commands of Islam in marriage, when he called for tranquility, mercy and affection between the spouses ..

Nirvana, that is, that your hearts and minds dwell with each other and you feel comfortable, calm, serenity, harmony and harmony as if one fabric ..

Mercy is a stronger feeling than love because it has kindness, tenderness, forgiveness, forgiveness and love, so it is a broader and more general concept ..

Affection, that is, doing and saying good things to each other . Say Well, do everything that pleases the soul and does not arouse hatred, and here kindness, tenderness, caress, respect and appreciation are born..

And I ask you ...

Would all these qualities be available before and after marriage , would you find divorce, screaming, fighting and aversion between spouses !؟

Will you find separated, broken families and tormented children

The solution ...

If your life is not the way it used to be , heed this advice ..They kept the family profile with respect, and that's in one word tunics ..Cover each other up ..Take care of your family, your children, and your life ..The tunic will preserve the marriage template and will save the family from falling apart even if there are no ties ..And believe me, this solution will come to you later with peace, affection and mercy ..

Whoever has problems tries that solution and sees what happens ..؟ Anyway